Sexual massage is one of the best sexual experiences that either an individual or a couple can give to each other. A massage can be a highly effective foreplay activity and in most cases, you may even have the time to finish the task. Not everyone can administer an effective sexual massage and below are sexual massage tips for beginners; that may just deliver high quality results as a pro.
To begin with, you need to understand that a sexual massage is more of an emotional activity than a physical. The mind and body have to blend and have the same focus and intention, expecting the same thing. Before beginning the massage, ensure that your partner is well bathed. A bubble bath is highly recommended and you need to help your partner bath. Make your partner lay on flat surface, preferably the floor as opposed to the bed. Place a pillow below her head and another one under the legs.
Apply the oil to your hands and gradually and carefully start applying it on her body, starting from the feet, moving upwards. The strokes should be more firm while moving upwards towards the heart and relaxed when moving towards the feet. It is important that you keep your eyes in on him/her and sense reactions as they responds to the sexual body massage. Take note of the sensitive parts of the body and pay a little more attention. The shoulders, the face and neck are among the tension spots in women. Keep off the spine.
On reaching the head, start the reverse massage as you slowly move towards the massage. Work down the facade of her arms and do her hands before you progress to her breasts. Don't just grab on, tease her. Gently, move over her breast, and then move around to the outside edge and around back to the top. Cup as you rub, with one or two hands depending on what best covers her. The nipples are very sensitive organs and you should pay some closer attention massaging them. Squeeze them teasingly and not so firmly.
It is more sensual to tease at the area around the genitals and not head straight to them. Move over the area around her tummy and then slowly move the hands outside her legs. Return to the inside of her legs and caress the edge of her vulva and after a few strokes, get to the genitals. Be careful with the oil inside the vagina. You can then opt to continue the journey all the way down the feet or any other option that the two of you may deem relevant.
Please note that you need the best oil available to deliver the best body massage. Use oil that has no allergic reaction. You can test by applying on a part of the body like the ear. A sexual massage for a beginner may not vary from the normal massage as the steps are the same. It is time you gave your partner that ultimate massage oil !