Premature Ejaculation Control
Sex is for many couples the one main issue that makes or
breaks relationships, lives and choices.
Sexual satisfaction is the elusive quality we are all searching
for and only seldom find. It is firmly set in the physical and
psychological parts of our consciousness and it depends on the
good functioning and communication of both people to deliver
satisfaction. But what happens when one of the two is unable to
perform its role as it should? By this I mean premature
ejaculation. If you suffer from this then do not be
alarmed as you are not alone as studies show that
premature ejaculation is the most common sexual problem in
men.
Sexologist Alfred Kinsey, discovered during the string of
studies conducted between 1948 and 1953 that three quarters of
men ejaculate within the first two minutes of penetration in
more than 50 percent of their sexual encounters. An estimated
30 percent of all men are unable to control their ejaculation
in most sexual encounters. This makes premature ejaculation a
huge problem for many men and couples.
Most of those suffering from premature ejaculation are
younger men, this is purely from lack of experience and
control. The first sexual encounter of many men will
result in premature ejaculation as little control makes holding
back difficult. Severe cases of premature ejaculation do not go
away on their own, but continue well into the adult years. The
results of this weakness on the physical side of sex tend to
merge into the psychological side, undermining confidence and
self esteem as the question ‘What is wrong with me?’ will
linger.
Clearly inexperience is the main cause of premature
ejaculation, followed by a weak PC muscle and a faster than
normal neurological response in the pelvic muscles. Of course
the cure for inexperience lies with more sex, while the muscles
located in the pelvic area can be trained as any other muscle
in the body to stop acting on their own. The PC muscle stands
for the pubococcygeus muscle. This muscle acts as floor to the
entire pelvic area of the body, supporting from underneath the
weight of organs. It also controls orgasm and prolonged
exercising helps men achieve orgasm without ejaculating
prematurely.
The best way to strengthen this muscle is with penis
exercises, like Kegels or those featured in the Penis Health
database. Have confidence in yourself and in your
strength to make premature ejaculation a thing of the past.
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